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Frequently Asked Questions
What is Hypnosis?
What is Hypnobabies?
Will it be painless?
Can I move around during my birthing time?
When is the best time to take Hypnobabies
during my pregnancy?
How does it work? Will I be using mind tricks
or distraction?
Should I take Hypnobabies classes if I'm
planning on using medication? AKA What about Epidurals?
I have a low pain
tolerance. Will Hypnobabies work for me?
Should I take Hypnobabies if there's
a good chance I'll be having a cesarean birth?
Why should I take an independent
Hypnobabies course instead of a hospital prepared childbirth or other
independent class?
Should I take a live class or order the
Hypnobabies Home Study course?
Do I need a partner?
I have fast labors. Will Hypnobabies
work for me?
I have long labors. Will Hypnobabies
work for me?
I'm a first-time mom. Will
Hypnobabies work for me?
I've had a baby before and it
really hurt. Will Hypnobabies work for me?
I'm very analytical. Will Hypnobabies
work for me?
Will I be in a trance or disconnected from
the experience?
Will my mind be under someone else's
control?
I'm a Christian. Is Hypnobabies against
my religion?
Answers
What is Hypnosis?
Hypnosis is a natural state. It's that deeply relaxed place between sleep and
awake. We all experience hypnosis every time we go to sleep and every time we
wake up. We experience hypnosis when we watch TV or a movie, drive a car, do
repetitive tasks, or daydream. We are awake and aware of what's happening around
us--we just tune it out because we're focused on something else.
When we're in a hypnotic state we are still in control of our mind and will.
We cannot be forced to do anything we don't want to do. If someone suggested
that we reveal confidential information or act in a way that goes against our
personal moral standards we would come out of hypnosis.
We cannot get "stuck" in hypnosis because all hypnosis is self-hypnosis--we
are always in complete control of our thoughts and actions. We cannot be
hypnotized if we don't want to be. We aren't in a strange trance or
"another realm". We are simply in that natural, deeply relaxed state that we all
go through every day.
Because hypnosis is a natural state--one that we've all experienced every day
of our lives--it's easy! Anyone who wants to be hypnotized can be.
Also read Hypnobabies founder Kerry Tuschhoff's article
"What is hypnosis for childbirth and DOES IT WORK?"
And
The Healing Power of Hypnosis, a Prevention article... reviewing what
hypnosis is and how it works.
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What is Hypnobabies?
Hypnobabies is a
method of childbirth preparation that uses hypnotic techniques, imagery and
visualization to re-program the inner mind in a very positive way, and
eliminate pain and fear from the birthing experience. This is different from
any other kind of hypnotherapy or childbirth education that you will ever do!
With adequate
preparation, and in the absence of complications, hypno-mothers have little or
no pain and shorter, easier birthings. Childbirth hypnosis classes are not
created equal. Investigate before you sign up and choose the course that
best suits your needs. Around 70% of moms who use Hypnobabies report
painless/very comfortable birthings. Only 30% (or less) of moms using more
commonly known hypnosis for childbirth techniques report painless or very
comfortable births.
Hypnobabies is a
highly successful program of hypnosis for childbirth, based on the work of
Gerald Kein and his Painless Childbirth program. We have also had some
wonderful input from Richard Widmeier's New Concepts on Painless Childbirth,
and some excellent visualizations from Dr. Gayle Petersen and Shelley
Stockwell, PhD. We are grateful to them for their generous contributions. We
also have resources in our program from many other talented and gracious
authors, which gives Hypnobabies a well-rounded approach to childbirth
education.
Back to Questions.
Will it be painless?
Although the Hypnobabies
success rate is the best that exists in the childbirth hypnosis field, I
cannot promise you a completely pain-free birth experience. Around 70%
of moms who use Hypnobabies report painless/very comfortable birthings with
another 15 - 20% saying their births were not painless, but still quite
manageable. There are many things that will affect your success, especially
your choices in childbirth and your commitment level. If you
take your Hypnobabies training seriously, practice your hypnosis cues, and
continue to do your maintenance work until the baby comes, you will be amazed
and thrilled with your birthing and create fascination and happy surprise all
around you as you use your Hypnobabies techniques! If you do the Hypnobabies
program as outlined, you have a very good chance of giving birth without any
pain. Hypnobabies works, so work the program! ☺
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Can I move around during my birthing
time?
YES!
Hypnobabies is a program that uses techniques that allow you to walk, talk and
move and still be completely comfortable and deeply in hypnosis. You will be
free to choose any positions that work best for you and your baby, we call it,
"Eyes Open Childbirth Hypnosis". Excellent!
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When is the best time to take
Hypnobabies during my pregnancy?
You may take Hypnobabies
classes at any time prior to giving birth provided you start the program 6
weeks or more before your estimated due date. Keep in mind that once you
finish the course you will need to continue to maintain your hypnosis
techniques through daily practice. If you choose to take the course early in
your pregnancy, realize that you still must commit to practicing every day
until the baby comes. Many women find that starting their Hypnobabies
classes toward the beginning of their third trimester to be an ideal time, but
you will know what works best for you.
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How does it work? Will I be using
mind tricks or distraction?
Hypnobabies
is a highly successful program of hypnosis for childbirth, based on the work
of Gerald Kein and his Painless Childbirth program. Rather than using mind
tricks or distraction techniques, you will learn hypno-anesthesia techniques
that will allow you to create and control your own anesthesia while birthing.
Hypnobabies teaches a variety of techniques to relax and enter hypnosis
instantly and create anesthesia while still allowing you to open your eyes and
move or talk while remaining comfortable in hypnosis! Other childbirth
methods teach wonderful relaxation techniques for use during birthing. While
relaxation does help reduce discomfort, many women find that hypno-anesthesia
techniques to be much, much more effective (as is evidenced by the very high
percentage of Hypnobabies moms reporting painless childbirth).
One of the
best aspects of this class is that you will be able to eliminate the fear that
causes tension and pain in birthing, a necessary step for any woman soon to
give birth. Fear causes tension, which is a source of pain while birthing.
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Should I take Hypnobabies classes if I'm planning on using
medication?
Hypnosis is a
tool. Medications are other tools available for you to use. You make the
choice that is right for you. However, you will be most satisfied with the
results of your Hypnobabies training if you fully commit to doing the
program as outlined.
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I have a low pain tolerance. Will Hypnobabies
work for me?
Using the deep relaxation and
hypno-anesthesia techniques taught in Hypnobabies classes you will know how to
create and control your body's own natural anesthesia so that you will reduce
or even eliminate pain while birthing. Where there's little or no pain,
even us pain wimps (yes, I'm one myself) can joyfully experience natural
childbirth.
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Should I take Hypnobabies if there's a good chance I'll
be having a cesarean birth?
Hypnobabies has recently
developed a Cesarean Birth preparation program using hypnosis so that moms
giving birth surgically can also do so calmly and joyfully. Please contact
Hypnobabies for more
information or to order the program.
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Why should I take an independent Hypnobabies class
instead of a hospital prepared childbirth or other independent class?
Hypnobabies
classes differ from hospital or other traditional natural childbirth classes
in several key ways:
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Most childbirth classes
teach that pain--excruciating pain, even--during childbirth is inevitable.
They give you ways to cope with the pain. Hypnobabies classes teach
you that pain during childbirth is not inevitable. While most
childbirth classes teach that the more relaxed you are, the less pain you
will have, Hypnobabies classes teach you how to actually create and
control your own hypno-anesthesia, which will reduce or even eliminate pain
while birthing. Although the Hypnobabies success rate is the best that
exists in the childbirth hypnosis field, I cannot promise you a
completely pain-free birth experience. Around 70% of moms who use
Hypnobabies report painless/very comfortable birthings. These moms worked
the program, so the program worked for them.
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Independent Hypnobabies
classes teach you how to plan the birth you want, not the birth that someone
else might expect you to have. We teach you to remember that this is your
experience and your baby's one and only birth. Hypnobabies covers a lot of
consumer information, including the benefits and risks of the more common
medical interventions in American birth today. Women who have full
information about their prospective choices will make informed decisions. If
you don't know your options, you don't have any!
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Hypnobabies works
wonderfully with a "coach" (we call them Birth Partners) or alone. All
hypnosis is self-hypnosis and your own personal commitment and practice as
the one giving birth will have the greatest impact on your
experience. With Hypnobabies your Birth Partner(s) will be very
knowledgeable and experienced in aiding your comfort and hypno-anesthesia.
If you do not have a partner (or friend or sister or mom) to attend
classes with you, consider hiring a
doula
(professional labor support person) to be with you during your birthing
time. I will be more than happy to help your doula to understand how best to
help you as a hypno-mom and your doula is welcome (and encouraged) to attend
classes with you.
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I, as an independent
childbirth educator, am not employed by a hospital and can therefore teach
facts that may or may not be in line with hospital policy. The hospital
can't fire me as a childbirth educator because I'm hired by you, not them.
Back to Questions.
Should I take a live class or order the Hypnobabies Home Study
course?
The Hypnobabies Home Study
course works wonderfully. There are many benefits to using it. There are also
many benefits to taking a live class. A live class gives you the opportunity
to interact with other students and an instructor who can answer your
questions as they come up. Attending a class will motivate some students who
may not exercise the discipline necessary to complete a home study option
(Birth Partners generally benefit from live classes in particular). There are
elements of a live Hypnobabies class that are not included in the home study
option due to the restrictive nature of packaging a course for
self-instruction. Live Hypnobabies classes are just a lot of fun, too. The
Hypnobabies Network strongly encourages taking a live class if there is one
available near you because more is included in the course.
If you live too far away from
an instructor to feasibly take a five week series of classes, you might
consider contacting the nearest instructor to see if you can come to Class 6
so that you can participate in the Birth Rehearsal and watch the Hypnobabies
birth videos.
Do I need a partner?
No. Hypnobabies works
wonderfully with a "coach" (we call them Birth Partners) or alone. All
hypnosis is self-hypnosis and your own personal commitment and practice as the
one giving birth will have the greatest impact on your experience.
However, if you are going to have a support person be with you as you birth,
it's best if he or she knows how to help so that he or she doesn't
unintentionally hinder your efforts. This is why partners (or another support
person) are encouraged to attend the classes as well. With Hypnobabies your
Birth Partner(s) will be very knowledgeable and experienced in aiding your
comfort and hypno-anesthesia. If you do not have a partner (or friend or
sister or mom) to attend classes with you, consider hiring a
doula (professional labor support person) to be
with you during your birthing time. I will be more than happy to help your
doula to understand how best to help you as a hypno-mom and your doula is
welcome (and encouraged) to attend classes with you.
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I have fast labors. Will Hypnobabies work for me?
Obviously your body is already
very comfortable with opening to birth your baby. Short labors can be
more intense, which is why Hypnobabies is so great. Using your
Hypnobabies skills, you'll be able to create instant relaxation and
hypno-anesthesia so that the experience of your labor--even if it proceeds
quickly--will be more comfortable and less intense.
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I have long labors. Will Hypnobabies work for me?
Labor lengths vary greatly
from woman to woman and many factors come into play, only some of which can be
controlled. Genetics and your own body's ideal birth progression rate are what
they are. You can't change them. Other factors that come into play are your
choice of provider (a supportive provider will allow you to relax and feel
safe), your choice of birthplace (an environment in which you feel safe and
relaxed will allow you to open more easily), fetal position (babies can be
encouraged to adopt optimal position, but sometimes babies persist to present
awkwardly), your beliefs about birth (fearing birth or believing birth to be
safe and normal), and your level of relaxation during labor and birth.
Hypnobabies teaches about all
of these other factors and focuses heavily on the last two: releasing fears
about birth so that you can relax and teaching you how to relax
and create hypno-anesthesia instantly so that your labor will be comfortable.
You will learn in class how your body works more easily and quickly when you
are relaxed. Hypnobabies moms typically see a reduction of labor length
because they are so relaxed. Even if your labor is longer than average,
Hypnobabies will allow you to perceive the time as passing quickly and will
help you from becoming fatigued.
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I'm a first-time mom. Will
Hypnobabies work for me?
Yes. Hypnobabies works wonderfully for first-time
mothers. The great thing about giving birth for the first time is that you
don't have past experiences to create certain expectations. You can
adopt positive beliefs about birth more easily and can make good decisions to
create a positive birth experience without having to go through a negative
experience first.
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I've had a baby before and it
really hurt. Will Hypnobabies work for me?
Yes. Hypnobabies works fantastically well for women
who have given birth before. The great thing about having given birth before
is that you have a good sense of what you liked and what you didn't, which
helps you make more focused decisions the next time around. Hypnobabies
helps you release your fears, anxieties, and limiting thoughts about birth
which in turn gives you the ability to relax deeply--a skill you maybe didn't
have when giving birth before. Hypnobabies also gives you powerful
hypno-anesthesia techniques which enable you to give birth very comfortably.
With your new Hypnobabies skills your future birth experiences will be
profoundly different from past birth experiences.
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I'm very analytical. Will Hypnobabies work for me?
Yes. All hypnosis is
self-hypnosis. If you want to reach a state of hypnosis, you will. If you
believe Hypnobabies will work and you practice the techniques, it will work.
Hypnobabies works for all types of thinkers, learners, and personality types.
The smarter you are, the more effective hypnosis is.
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Will I be in a trance or disconnected from the experience?
No. Think about a time when
you were lying in bed, not quite awake and not quite asleep, either.
It's a very peaceful, relaxed state. You're aware of things going on around
you (such as music playing, the wind blowing, traffic outside, etc.), but you
just don't care. You could wake up if you wanted to or if you needed to, or
you could go to sleep. This is the place Hypnobabies teaches you to reach
during your birthing. You will always be aware of what's going on around you.
Using the hypnosis techniques taught in Hypnobabies you will always be relaxed
with hypno-anesthesia flowing exactly where you need it, even when you choose
to open your eyes and move around.
While using
Hypnobabies, you will be in a heightened state of awareness. You will feel
more in tune with yourself and more connected with your baby. You will not be
passive. You will feel the power of your uterine muscles as they surge with
each birthing wave, these sensations will simply be free of discomfort. You
will be in tune with your instincts and will do what your body tells you you
need to do.
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Will my mind be under someone else's control?
No. All hypnosis is
self-hypnosis. No one can guide you into a state of hypnosis unless you want
them to. Once in a state of hypnosis, no one can tell you act in a way
contrary to your core values or cause you to believe something that goes
against your core beliefs. It's up to you to choose which suggestions you will
accept and which suggestions you will reject. If someone tried to manipulate
you into doing something that you didn't want to do, you would come out of
hypnosis instantly. You are always in control. You are welcome (and
encouraged) to listen to each of your Hypnobabies CD's in a normal waking
state prior to listening to them for guided hypnosis. This will allow you to
know exactly what suggestions will be given.
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I'm a Christian. Is Hypnobabies
against my religion?
No. All hypnosis is
self-hypnosis. No one will be exerting mind control over you to get you to do
evil things. As a Christian myself, I believe that hypnosis is a wonderful
tool given to us by God. That said, if you do not feel comfortable with the
idea of hypnosis even after learning more about it, another childbirth
education course would be a better fit for you.
This brief statement may help you.
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